Let me just say that if you're ever dating someone, and you don't like them for who they are and how they are as a person inside and out and aren't attracted to them... Just let them go. Don't try and change them. If there's things that a person doesn't like about themselves, don't knit pick at it and crush their self esteem by giving them a complex. Encourage them and tell them how much you love them and what you love about them. Compliment something about their flaw that they're insecure about and help them feel good about that part of them.
I recently came across a post that a young woman had posted about a recent old flame that belittled her and wanted everything to be about him. I'll post the screen shots of the since deleted post of it all, and you can make your own judgments upon it.
You just don't do that to women. Or anyone for that matter. This guy (I refuse to call him a man, because a real man wouldn't do or say the shit this guy did) told his then girlfriend basically that she didn't take their relationship seriously because she wasn't working hard enough to get a sexy hot solid body to be the sexiest woman on the beach and that she should be doing workouts every opportunity she gets. Even while on work breaks and such. And that she shouldn't be eating pizzas, or be wearing foundation (even though he doesn't like the pink undertones of her natural skin or blemishes that she tries to hide to please this person). Y'all, I am absolutely appalled at how this guy was talking to this young woman. I went to her page and peeked at her pictures and she's BEAUTIFUL!!!! I came across a picture of what I assume was the two of them together, and he looked.... Yeeeeeeah. Let's just say that he should look in the mirror before he harped on his then girlfriend about her looks. Maybe it's just me. But I didn't find him the least bit attractive. He's not fat or anything either. Just has a look about him. Maybe it's because he's vegan. *shrugs* Totally nothing against vegans. But with this whole thing, I've learned that vegans are angry minions. It's absolutely true. I thought they were these happy little tree hugging, animal loving, gentle soul hippy people. No. Absolutely NOT. If you eat meat, you may as well be the devil themselves. I had a dude come flying off the handles at me because I confessed to eating meat. Look, what you do with you life and your beliefs is none of my fucking business. As long as it's not harming anyone, I don't give a fuck what you do. I'm not going to down you because you'd rather eat plants that have been shat on by the animals I eat. (Meat is delicious, by the way). No plant can even come close to tasting like the real thing. I'm totally open to trying vegan food. I'll even maybe try it for a week or something just to see what it's all about and see if I notice any changes within myself. I've tried this GMC Diet thing like 10+ years ago. The first few days was a cleansing process that you had to drink mostly water, and could only have like fruits and certain vegetables. No meat. Let's just say that I didn't even make it to the end of the diet. I think it was a week long thing with different things to eat each day. I made it to the day of the huge baked potato and caved because my asshole family decided they wanted to cook fucking hotdogs in the oven and smell up the house of deliciousness. Of course I fucking caved and crammed my face with hotdogs. Damn straight I did! My sister cousin (she's actually my cousin) was so disappointed in me. "SAMANTHA! You couldn't hold out for 2-3 more days?!?" Hmmm.. Nope! I couldn't. My willpower just couldn't take it anymore. I will admit that I didn't think I would like the cabbage soup that the diet had on there with the recipe included, but it was actually surprisingly good. I also felt good inside wise. Like I didn't feel like my insides were covered in sludge. I guess that's a good thing, yeah?
Anyway, back to the point of this post. I don't think I can just up and quit meat. It's been a part of my life since the very beginning. But, kudos to those who made the transition and/or are vegetarians/vegans. Just don't be a douche nozzle. Just because you're a vegan doesn't make you God's special love golden child or some shit. I feel like some vegans feel like they're the best thing since sliced bread. It's almost lined up there with organized religion. Some people seem like just because they go to church or read the bible that they're good christian's or something. Which some are the very people who hide behind the 'the word of God' and make the lame bullshit excuses that "God made me do this." No. God doesn't make people do ugly shit. God/Jesus loved EVERYBODY. Fuck you for cherry picking and twisting and turning shit to fit YOUR shitty lifestyle to have the excuse to be a piece of shit fucking human. I hope that someone nails your ass to a fucking cross and burns it. (Okay, so that was a little too extreme. My bad). Also another *DISCLAIMER* I say shit that's offensive and just down right wrong and shocking sometimes. It's part of my sick and twisted sense of humor. So, if you get easily offended, just stop reading my shit right now. I cannot guarantee you that you'll still have virgin eyes and ears after this. I'm a terrible influence and I fully admit that. But at least I can be funny, and I'm damn fun. So, there's that.
Okay, so now I'll post the pictures and you can see how wrong this was and how shitty of a person this guy is and I hope that after his blast across social media makes him think twice about saying hurtful shit like to to future women, or maybe women can take this heed of warning and avoid the guys all together. This is just something you don't and shouldn't say to any woman or anyone. This actually infuriated me. I couldn't ever be with someone who did that. My heart literally broke for this woman. These should be in order. (I hope) If not, please go by the time stamped at the top of the image. (There's also a video, completely unrelated to this, of this guy protesting at what I assume to be a pig farm or slaughter house and is brutally beaten by Police officers here: Police Brutality on Vegan Woman Abuser)
Allyson (the young woman who was being verbally abused by this guy) Posted these screen shots on Facebook to get her side of the story out because she was tired of being a victim and being isolated and confined to her home. When she posted, she didn't expect her post to go viral and was surprised at the amount of support for her, and the amount of shit talking people were doing against her ex-boyfriend. She didn't want to take the light away from the animals. (Allyson is also vegan) Her post has since been deleted.






















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