I honestly get it, because I’ve been there. But if you’re so unhappy, materialistic things or a boyfriend/girlfriend isn’t going to help make you feel better. Those are called distractions and they'll only temporarily distract you and keep you satisfied for so long until you're on to the next thing you want or need. Sit down and evaluate what you’re so unhappy about and work on it. And no. Being single isn’t a good enough excuse to be sad and miserable. There are plenty of people who are happy single. Find what needs working on within yourself and work on it. It is with you where happiness lies within. Not in materials or people.
Still living with Mommy and Daddy? Work hard. Save money. Get a place of your own.
Living with roommates? Stop spending your money on stupid shit like alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, going out all the time, eating out all the time and save up your money and get your own place.
Don’t have a car? Same thing. Stop wasteful spending and save up your money.
Don’t have a job? Fucking get one you fucking bum.
Bored? Find a hobby.
Fat? Cut out the sugars and bullshit foods and drinks you consume and replace with water and healthy foods like fruits and vegetables and getting more active. Go on a walk. Go for a run. Join a gym. Find things heavy to lift at home.
Find what makes YOU happy. What YOU enjoy doing. Whether it’s sewing, knitting, painting, building, volunteer work, whatever. Just do it.
You can want, want, want, all you want, but it’s not going to bring you true happiness.
We all have to start somewhere. Start within yourself.
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